I tried my best not to write any sad or negative things in this page to contaminate my blog. But there is still limitation in everyone. When you are stressed up or being forced to the corner of the wall, you never know what would happen to you and so as I, MR TAN WEI SHANG, SHANE.
When people do not comment on you, that does not mean that you are perfect, you have done nothing wrong, you have not put them in high dudgeon and you never make them sad or cry because of you.
Everyone has their own principle in living their life. As the saying goes 'Rome is not built in one day'. This is absolutely right. This principles are developed not only from one day or on month, but it gradually evolved since we are young. Born with a silver spoon in your mouth does not mean that you can comment on everything just like you are commanding your maids or whoever that is willing to listen to your 'instruction'. Just to remind you, you are not a QUEEN/KING anymore when you are OUT of your OWN house.
Staying out harmoniously is a matter of compromise. 'Compromise' means that you have to think whether something that make you angry is done with purpose or without. When the door is slammed when you are sleeping, think, Think and THINK, whether they did that on purpose? Would they PURPOSEFULLY slam the door when they know that you are sleeping? Would they know that someone is sleeping when they see the his/her laptop is on and the bedroom door is open? Who in this world would INTENTIONALLY wake you up from your slumber just for a revenge and scold you ST_P__ B___LESS A__? Yes, I can assure you, there is such people in this world.
Words hurt. I know and I understand it very deeply. But do you? When you write something just for the sake of memories, do you ever think of others' feelings? Is that the only way to record your memories in this whole BIG world?
There are problems inevitably occurring in our life. Just let it pass and everything is back to normal again. Life is so busy now until we have no time to cook or to wash but to order delivery. Why cant we just ignore all the problems instead of scratching our head, thinking of who we should blame? Everyone is tired and sick of it.
I have been staying in this new house for around 1 month ONLY and it is so fast that I reconsider to continue staying in this house.. Oops!! This does not sound right. Why should I move? I signed the contract and I HAVE the right to stay in this house, I HAVE the right to chase anyone out from this house WHENEVER I WANT. Just make sure that you behave appropriately, DO NOT trigger/raise any issues in this house, DO NOT PURPOSEFULLY wake people up from their nap, DO NOT play mind games, and you will be safe.